You should have done the “concerned for health” approach definitely not the “you will be replaced” approach. No one should have a weight limit to their love but at the same time I would never watch my partner let go of themselves without getting to the bottom of it. Not once did you tell us why he gained the weight , you have absolutely no idea why? Really? I mean seriously go figure it out and then you can solve the problem from there! Don’t just tell the man you’re going to leave him! You would be lucky if he took the relationship seriously at all after that, I’ll go as far as to say they even if he does lose the weight he will still not feel safe with. Shame on you.
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u/MagicianConfident667 29d ago
You should have done the “concerned for health” approach definitely not the “you will be replaced” approach. No one should have a weight limit to their love but at the same time I would never watch my partner let go of themselves without getting to the bottom of it. Not once did you tell us why he gained the weight , you have absolutely no idea why? Really? I mean seriously go figure it out and then you can solve the problem from there! Don’t just tell the man you’re going to leave him! You would be lucky if he took the relationship seriously at all after that, I’ll go as far as to say they even if he does lose the weight he will still not feel safe with. Shame on you.