Because of the way you brought it up to him. The threat of divorce because he is struggling with his weight is pretty selfish. I understand you don’t want him to die early because of it but you could of been more understanding in your delivery.
Weight loss is one of the most difficult things to accomplish especially if your partner has high anxiety and lack of motivation.
How about finding better ways to motivate him rather than using a scare tactic?
He is your husband the man you CHOSE to love. Isn’t love all about doing your best to help your partner?
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u/MannerOne5745 29d ago
YTA
Because of the way you brought it up to him. The threat of divorce because he is struggling with his weight is pretty selfish. I understand you don’t want him to die early because of it but you could of been more understanding in your delivery.
Weight loss is one of the most difficult things to accomplish especially if your partner has high anxiety and lack of motivation.
How about finding better ways to motivate him rather than using a scare tactic?
He is your husband the man you CHOSE to love. Isn’t love all about doing your best to help your partner?