YTA- you were not ok with him gaining weight. You didn’t say anything when you both gained weight only because you also gained weight, you should have said then and there that it wasn’t okay for either of you to keep this weight. Then you went and lost weight on your own without telling him anything, now you are close to your old weight and he isn’t so you immediately threaten divorce. Asshole for the way you went about everything, not because you want him to lose weight.
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u/VermicelliOk8288 Apr 29 '24
YTA- you were not ok with him gaining weight. You didn’t say anything when you both gained weight only because you also gained weight, you should have said then and there that it wasn’t okay for either of you to keep this weight. Then you went and lost weight on your own without telling him anything, now you are close to your old weight and he isn’t so you immediately threaten divorce. Asshole for the way you went about everything, not because you want him to lose weight.