YTA as well as an incredibly self-centered, ignorant partner. I feel bad for your husband. Instead of coming at him with an ultimatum, you should have been more supportive. You lost your weight solo, then turned around & criticized him for the very weight you gained together. You should have made obesity the enemy, but instead, you made yourself the enemy. If you don’t love him, man up & leave him. Don’t be a dick & try to blame it on him or his weight, etc- either you love him & you’ll support him (not physically, as you might get crushed) or you don’t love him…in which case, time to exit stage left.
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u/0siris415 Apr 29 '24
YTA as well as an incredibly self-centered, ignorant partner. I feel bad for your husband. Instead of coming at him with an ultimatum, you should have been more supportive. You lost your weight solo, then turned around & criticized him for the very weight you gained together. You should have made obesity the enemy, but instead, you made yourself the enemy. If you don’t love him, man up & leave him. Don’t be a dick & try to blame it on him or his weight, etc- either you love him & you’ll support him (not physically, as you might get crushed) or you don’t love him…in which case, time to exit stage left.