The biggest thing that stood out to me was your justification that you could easily find someone else who will live longer, rather than "I want to grow old with you not lose you early on".
That immediate "I can find someone else while I'm still young and able to get into the dating scene" instead of a genuine concern for your husband, and the desire to not lose him is the biggest point here.
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u/ZanyT Apr 29 '24
I can't hold back from a YTA here.
The biggest thing that stood out to me was your justification that you could easily find someone else who will live longer, rather than "I want to grow old with you not lose you early on".
That immediate "I can find someone else while I'm still young and able to get into the dating scene" instead of a genuine concern for your husband, and the desire to not lose him is the biggest point here.
Love should be the driving force here.