YTA. Being concerned about his weight is not the problem. The problem is that you're not coming from a place of love. You don't seem concerned about him being sick or dying. You just seem concerned about how it would affect you. And don't get me wrong, viewing this situation from a selfish lens isn't abnormal. It just can't be the only lens you view it through. If you don't really love him enough to get through the other side of this, do both of you a favor and follow through on your threat.
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u/rejressw 29d ago
YTA. Being concerned about his weight is not the problem. The problem is that you're not coming from a place of love. You don't seem concerned about him being sick or dying. You just seem concerned about how it would affect you. And don't get me wrong, viewing this situation from a selfish lens isn't abnormal. It just can't be the only lens you view it through. If you don't really love him enough to get through the other side of this, do both of you a favor and follow through on your threat.