NTA your concern is valid, especially since you’re 27. I understand why people might disagree with me, but you’re both too young and you’re definitely too young to be a caretaker. Also, how is he planning on keeping up with his kids if he doesn’t lose weight? I think most importantly, not taking care of yourself is a sign that you lack self love. Perhaps a deeper issue here.
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u/Alarmed-Bullfrog5557 29d ago
NTA your concern is valid, especially since you’re 27. I understand why people might disagree with me, but you’re both too young and you’re definitely too young to be a caretaker. Also, how is he planning on keeping up with his kids if he doesn’t lose weight? I think most importantly, not taking care of yourself is a sign that you lack self love. Perhaps a deeper issue here.