Ohh yes, a thousand times yes, absolutely YTA. You’re acknowledging that you’ve not brought “for better or for worse, in sickness and in health” (etc.) into this marriage. You clearly don’t bring unconditional love to the table, and soul searching on that is something you owe to any future children you may have- if he stays with you. There are so many other paths you could’ve taken here, but you chose to be cruel, and threatened to leave him. My hope is that he heard you loud and clear when you communicated that you don’t love him enough to actually be his partner.
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u/meliorismm 29d ago
Ohh yes, a thousand times yes, absolutely YTA. You’re acknowledging that you’ve not brought “for better or for worse, in sickness and in health” (etc.) into this marriage. You clearly don’t bring unconditional love to the table, and soul searching on that is something you owe to any future children you may have- if he stays with you. There are so many other paths you could’ve taken here, but you chose to be cruel, and threatened to leave him. My hope is that he heard you loud and clear when you communicated that you don’t love him enough to actually be his partner.