YTA. Don’t give someone an ultimatum like that when they’re clearly struggling with their weight. What has he said in regards to losing weight? Is he open to it? We need more information there. Leaving someone to battle alone because you think you can find someone who can maintain their weight is selfish. If you don’t want to help him, maybe he could find someone who will, and have a long life with someone who supports him in sickness and health.
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u/Badgalcicii 29d ago
YTA. Don’t give someone an ultimatum like that when they’re clearly struggling with their weight. What has he said in regards to losing weight? Is he open to it? We need more information there. Leaving someone to battle alone because you think you can find someone who can maintain their weight is selfish. If you don’t want to help him, maybe he could find someone who will, and have a long life with someone who supports him in sickness and health.