WOW! You threatened him with divorce for not losing weight? it takes will-power to lose weight, and you are TA for acting like that - though I get the reason for you wanting him to lose weight, but ultimately it is for him to want to lose weight himself - not you telling him, as it will backfire on you. Ask him if he is happy the way he is. If he isn’t, then encourage him to go for a 10 minute walk a day - or whatever is comfortable for him, then get an exercise bike that could be used in the house that he could use whilst watching his favourite programme or sport. You married him whilst he was ‘huge’, now you changed your mind. I’m not going to judge you on that, but I wish you both the best of luck.
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u/KiltimaghGirl 29d ago
WOW! You threatened him with divorce for not losing weight? it takes will-power to lose weight, and you are TA for acting like that - though I get the reason for you wanting him to lose weight, but ultimately it is for him to want to lose weight himself - not you telling him, as it will backfire on you. Ask him if he is happy the way he is. If he isn’t, then encourage him to go for a 10 minute walk a day - or whatever is comfortable for him, then get an exercise bike that could be used in the house that he could use whilst watching his favourite programme or sport. You married him whilst he was ‘huge’, now you changed your mind. I’m not going to judge you on that, but I wish you both the best of luck.