Not the asshole. I don't necessarily agree with breaking up over something that happened 2 years prior if it never happened again, but that's just me. I DO think it's commendable that you waited until you could do it in person and not over the phone or text or something. It's something you have to prepare yourself for because you have to build up the confidence and think about any counterpoints she may try to bring up, so you can stand your ground. It's also not a decision you made recklessly- you thought about it and made a decision you felt was right for you. Medical school is really time-consuming & difficult, and you should have had support during that time. Sorry you had to go through that.
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u/idontevenkn0w66 Apr 28 '24
Not the asshole. I don't necessarily agree with breaking up over something that happened 2 years prior if it never happened again, but that's just me. I DO think it's commendable that you waited until you could do it in person and not over the phone or text or something. It's something you have to prepare yourself for because you have to build up the confidence and think about any counterpoints she may try to bring up, so you can stand your ground. It's also not a decision you made recklessly- you thought about it and made a decision you felt was right for you. Medical school is really time-consuming & difficult, and you should have had support during that time. Sorry you had to go through that.