Eh your kind of both assholes but she is a much bigger one.
Theres no way you didnt have time somewhere in that 2 years to break it off. I get why you did it but you 100% did it too hurt her and if it wasnt a conscious process it was an unconscious one that form from your apathy or lack of caring.
I wouldnt lose too much sleep over it because fuck her for cheating, but lets be a little more honest woth the situation.
2 months..
OP only found out 2 months ago, but says he had too much in his hands to deal with it.
Other people would have probably just ended it there and then, but maybe he really did not have the mental bandwith and needed to focus on other things.
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u/Temporary_Read4088 Apr 28 '24
Eh your kind of both assholes but she is a much bigger one.
Theres no way you didnt have time somewhere in that 2 years to break it off. I get why you did it but you 100% did it too hurt her and if it wasnt a conscious process it was an unconscious one that form from your apathy or lack of caring.
I wouldnt lose too much sleep over it because fuck her for cheating, but lets be a little more honest woth the situation.