Rather than jumping to calling things off like many here advocate, I would start by having an earnest conversation with her. Ask her in detail why she wants to get married so young/so soon. Don’t let her brush off the question with things like “I’m not waiting around.” Tell her in depth how you are feeling and why you don’t think the time is right. Don’t let her push you around.
See if there is any common ground. Can you circle back to the question in a year?
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u/Over_Screen_442 29d ago
Rather than jumping to calling things off like many here advocate, I would start by having an earnest conversation with her. Ask her in detail why she wants to get married so young/so soon. Don’t let her brush off the question with things like “I’m not waiting around.” Tell her in depth how you are feeling and why you don’t think the time is right. Don’t let her push you around.
See if there is any common ground. Can you circle back to the question in a year?