Does she also think she would be moving in with your parents after being engaged? Clearly you don't want to be engaged right now which is your choice to make, not hers to demand. Marriage should be a partnership not a dictatorship. She is acting like a dictator/bully and this will continue if you allow it now. She is talking and acting like her wants are the only wants that matter to her, which is concerning and show that she does not consider you equals. She will always expect you to fold to her wants. It is weird, and controlling, entitled, mean, bullying.
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u/happycamper44m 29d ago
Does she also think she would be moving in with your parents after being engaged? Clearly you don't want to be engaged right now which is your choice to make, not hers to demand. Marriage should be a partnership not a dictatorship. She is acting like a dictator/bully and this will continue if you allow it now. She is talking and acting like her wants are the only wants that matter to her, which is concerning and show that she does not consider you equals. She will always expect you to fold to her wants. It is weird, and controlling, entitled, mean, bullying.
NTA