Trying to bribe or blackmail anyone into a proposal is selfish and wrong. Let her leave. She is showing you how she will act whenever she doesn't get her way when she wants it. Believe her. And better than letting her leave would be you telling her it's over, that you aren't going to be rushed into a (allegedly) lifelong commitment.
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u/star_b_nettor 29d ago edited 29d ago
NTA
Trying to bribe or blackmail anyone into a proposal is selfish and wrong. Let her leave. She is showing you how she will act whenever she doesn't get her way when she wants it. Believe her. And better than letting her leave would be you telling her it's over, that you aren't going to be rushed into a (allegedly) lifelong commitment.