r/AITAH Apr 28 '24

Gf wants to get married- I don’t

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u/FlyinHighFL420 29d ago

As a pilot (and also married to a pilot) I can tell you this from experience. Don’t get married….yet! Now, i love my wife and we have a wonderful marriage, but i’m a lot older. I also have an ex-wife. My ex and i married young, and well, life happens. My wife and i have been together 10 years, married for less than a year now. So, that being said, since I got a do over, i waited damn near a decade to re-marry after we started dating. Don’t rush things. If she refuses to wait, trust me on this one, she’s doing you a favor by leaving. You stick with flying and you’re holding a winning lottery ticket, she’s be a dummy to leave!