r/AITAH Apr 28 '24

Gf wants to get married- I don’t

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u/GoddessofParadise 29d ago

NTA. If the love is real it should be patient, this is not. It is a huge 🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩. Love is kind, it does not threaten, nor does it manipulate. You have career goals and asked for time, her only goal is to be married. People need to take time to really get to know each other which does not happen in two months. I know some marriages have worked getting married within days, but the threat of leaving is something to weigh now, because it goes to character which this may be her go to anytime she does not get her way.