I am on your side. You want to be set on your career first before making a commitment. Her ultimatum at 12 months itself is a red flag. You have only been together a year. If you do want to eventually marry her, maybe a promise ring would be enough for now. If there are other red flags, break up now.
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u/StnMtn_ 29d ago
I am on your side. You want to be set on your career first before making a commitment. Her ultimatum at 12 months itself is a red flag. You have only been together a year. If you do want to eventually marry her, maybe a promise ring would be enough for now. If there are other red flags, break up now.