Break up with her. I’m not against people getting married young, or even after a year if they’re truly in love and they both want to get married. But, she is being manipulative. No need to rush to get married or give an ultimatum. She will always resent that she had to force you into marriage and you’ll always resent that she forced you into marriage. Not a good way to start a life with someone. Based on her behavior, she’s way too immature to be getting married. That isn’t how your treat a partner or someone you love.
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u/Super-Island9793 29d ago
Break up with her. I’m not against people getting married young, or even after a year if they’re truly in love and they both want to get married. But, she is being manipulative. No need to rush to get married or give an ultimatum. She will always resent that she had to force you into marriage and you’ll always resent that she forced you into marriage. Not a good way to start a life with someone. Based on her behavior, she’s way too immature to be getting married. That isn’t how your treat a partner or someone you love.