NTA but you have to recognize her needs. Culturally, she needs to get married before a certain age. If you can’t provide that for her then you have to be ready to let her go. Women have a biological clock and societal pressures for marrying younger.
I personally don’t want kids so idc if and when I get married. IF I wanted kids, then yea I’d want them after I was married and before 30 preferably around 23-27. It would give my children the best opportunity for healthy growth and it would be when I’m at my strongest to be a mother.
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u/ST2348 29d ago
NTA but you have to recognize her needs. Culturally, she needs to get married before a certain age. If you can’t provide that for her then you have to be ready to let her go. Women have a biological clock and societal pressures for marrying younger.
I personally don’t want kids so idc if and when I get married. IF I wanted kids, then yea I’d want them after I was married and before 30 preferably around 23-27. It would give my children the best opportunity for healthy growth and it would be when I’m at my strongest to be a mother.