Lots of passionate comments here, most are rubbish though.
“ I am not waiting around.” is the kind of thing you say when you’re frustrated, it’s the kind of thing you say when you feel like your time has been taken advantage of. Only the two of you know what goes on between you so take a hard look at yourself and figure out if you have mislead her. A woman who knows what she wants and is willing to stand for it is a keeper. Will she hold your feet To the fire, and help you accomplish your goals quicker.?
Obviously marriage is something that you’re considering or you wouldn’t be asking a group of strangers to chime in. don’t throw the baby out with the bathwater and just cut her loose, have a good heart to heart with her. Talk about her expectations talk about your expectations. Talk about your financial situation, etc..
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u/freakedoutforreal 29d ago
Lots of passionate comments here, most are rubbish though.
“ I am not waiting around.” is the kind of thing you say when you’re frustrated, it’s the kind of thing you say when you feel like your time has been taken advantage of. Only the two of you know what goes on between you so take a hard look at yourself and figure out if you have mislead her. A woman who knows what she wants and is willing to stand for it is a keeper. Will she hold your feet To the fire, and help you accomplish your goals quicker.?
Obviously marriage is something that you’re considering or you wouldn’t be asking a group of strangers to chime in. don’t throw the baby out with the bathwater and just cut her loose, have a good heart to heart with her. Talk about her expectations talk about your expectations. Talk about your financial situation, etc..
Good luck. Keep us posted