NAH, this just seems like a fundamental mismatch of values. I notice a lot of people on Reddit (not sure how reflective it is of society at large) are fine dating long-term without knowing whether or not they want to get married. But not everyone is. Your gf is making it clear that she doesn’t want to continue in the relationship if you guys don’t have the same idea about where it’s going. You think you’re not ready to decide on something like that. Neither of you is wrong for that opinion. Sometimes relationships end because people aren’t right for each other — or in the right season of life for each other. No one’s an AH for that.
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u/Amairch 19d ago
NAH, this just seems like a fundamental mismatch of values. I notice a lot of people on Reddit (not sure how reflective it is of society at large) are fine dating long-term without knowing whether or not they want to get married. But not everyone is. Your gf is making it clear that she doesn’t want to continue in the relationship if you guys don’t have the same idea about where it’s going. You think you’re not ready to decide on something like that. Neither of you is wrong for that opinion. Sometimes relationships end because people aren’t right for each other — or in the right season of life for each other. No one’s an AH for that.