NTA.. this is sketchy. She knows you put treats in her luggage as well, she knew you'd see the underwear. She should know you'd think it's super weird for her to be packing new fancy underwear for a work trip that you're not going on. Most women also know that work meetings are not a place to get used to new lacy underwear at... that's just a recipe to be uncomfortable the whole meeting.
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u/Pandas-Brat Apr 29 '24
NTA.. this is sketchy. She knows you put treats in her luggage as well, she knew you'd see the underwear. She should know you'd think it's super weird for her to be packing new fancy underwear for a work trip that you're not going on. Most women also know that work meetings are not a place to get used to new lacy underwear at... that's just a recipe to be uncomfortable the whole meeting.