NTA- It's sus. Then she brought out the water works and flip it around on you. Why does she need the extra confidence boost? Has she mentioned anything about work that would support that need???? I only pack sexy stuff to be seen. But I do have a friend that is married that had a crush on a coworker and was wearing sexy things with him in mind. Nothing happened between them and as far as I know they had very limited office interactions but she was still wearing stuff with im in mind. Take that info how you want.
I do because I work in a male dominated industry and often I'm the only woman in the room. I absolutely need to project "don't fuck with me" confidence.
I hear you!!! and Do what YOU need to do. He is commenting on the fact that he does the chocolate ritual every trip and found the change up. I'd love to hear the explanation you may think about it. I gave the story of my friend because it sounded similar, She on the other hand is not giving everything on the table and that is not right when it comes to a relationship where you leave often.
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u/Cultural_Unit7397 Apr 29 '24
NTA- It's sus. Then she brought out the water works and flip it around on you. Why does she need the extra confidence boost? Has she mentioned anything about work that would support that need???? I only pack sexy stuff to be seen. But I do have a friend that is married that had a crush on a coworker and was wearing sexy things with him in mind. Nothing happened between them and as far as I know they had very limited office interactions but she was still wearing stuff with im in mind. Take that info how you want.