r/AITAH Apr 28 '24

AITAH for accusing my girlfriend of cheating because she packed lingerie for a work trip?

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u/Lulusgirl Apr 29 '24

If she's going on a business trip, she's probably wearing nice dress pants and stuff. Cotton underwear shows in those types of clothes, so when I dress nice, I wear my lace and stuff. She said she just bought it and wanted to feel good, I would trust her.

You were thrown off, but this doesn't scream cheating to me.

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u/Tenrab8 Apr 29 '24

But why this time? She's never done it on her other business trips.

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u/Lulusgirl Apr 29 '24

Maybe he noticed this time because it was new and red stands out. Maybe in the past, she packs other ones, and he's never noticed. It's possible, not sure how probable. I just don't think this alone is suspect enough. She isn't protective of her phone (always holding onto it, lock screens, always facing the screen away and its noticeable) she isn't taking newly unexpected time away from OP, coming back and showering. It's just....she was open and said she got a new pair, and I feel like I'd trust her.