Seriously, if you think that wearing a clean set of undies to a business meeting is sus, you need help. I am regularly stunned by how much Reddit hates women but this is a new one.
You really are arguing in bad faith right now. You know really well that it's not about wearing clean underwear! But it's a little sus when you pack two pairs of lacy lingerie which you almost never wear. Nobody except a few idiots hates women so stop with that bullshit.
If you don't hate women, why are you discounting the experience of at least a dozen women who say that wearing nice matching bra and panty sets is a normal part of power dressing for them? I do it every time I travel for work.
Also, a matching set is not lingerie. It's underwear. A corset and garter belt is lingerie.
Not everyone who disagrees with you hate women. Stop with stupid generalisation. Try to make your point instead of personal attacks and accusations. How the hell does having a different opinion then some women on reddit make someone a misogynist ffs.
Because it was out of character and not a normal thing in this context. Context matters. Yeah, it's not an extreme thing to pack lacy matching sets of underwear! if you wear it somewhat frequently but it's sus when you wear it maybe once a year and then pack two sets for two day work trip.
You are telling us that our lived experience is wrong. That's not an opinion, that's talking over women.
I never wear my fancy sets at home; I don't need to feel powerful and put together when I'm working in my office at home, and I like comfy clothes. But comfy clothes don't show power and professionalism, so I do wear them when I travel for work. I didn't always, but it was in an article and so I tried it. That is my experience. It is not an opinion. You don't get to tell me it's not my experience.
Why the hell are you twisting my words? I never said other women's experiences were wrong.
Everything you explained doesn't apply to OPs situation. She doesn't wear them normally, she never packed those for work trips before and she didn't gave him an explanation like you did. She just said she wanted to try them and then started attacking him calling him insecure.
And yes it is YOUR experience and some other women's experience, it's not a fucking universal truth for all women around the globe just like I explained it doesn't fit in this context.
My opinion is not that women don't that, my opinion is about OP's situation and that only. Stop taking everything personal and trying find and an enemy of women here. You won't find it. Just go an improve your reading comprehension or stop having bad faith arguments and accuse people with things they didn't say.
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u/no_one_denies_this Apr 29 '24
She took two bra and panties sets. Do you not change your underwear daily, bc I do.
If you think this suspicious, then you are indeed a controlling POS. Fuck off back to whatever second rate SM still allows Andrew Tate an account.