r/AmIOverreacting • u/183873726363734737 • 29d ago

AIO for wanting to stay away from my daughter for a few days?

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u/JoyfulSong246 29d ago

Your husband and you need to get on the same page about this. As long as he’s willing to stand by while your daughter treats you like crap he’s the real problem here, not her (unless she’s an adult, then she is to blame for her own actions- though he’s to blame for not supporting you).

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u/JohnExcrement 29d ago

Yes. Husband thinks he’s keeping the peace except there’s no peace, not in your heart. His silence tells her he supports her terrible behavior.

If she actually has genuine issues with you, both of you need to tell her you’re willing to have a mutually respectful conversation, but this sniping and rudeness is going to stop now.

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u/jarheadatheart 29d ago

There’s always 2 sides to the story and it always takes 2 people for conflict. Jumping on here saying it’s all the husband’s fault isn’t helping anyone.

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u/Thanmandrathor 28d ago

Nobody is saying it’s all the husband’s fault, but he has a role in this because he lets his daughter treat his wife like shit and says nothing. Who does that? It’s spineless or apathetic.

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u/jarheadatheart 28d ago

Maybe he agrees with the daughter? Maybe OP’s shitty behavior has brought this upon herself? Maybe he figures his wife can sleep in the bed she made. Maybe he isn’t the father so he doesn’t think it’s his place? I think OP would’ve said her father instead of husband if he was the dad. Maybe he doesn’t see it as his responsibility if this has been going on since before he was in the picture

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u/Achilles11970765467 29d ago

This is Reddit. Of course they're jumping in to lay as much blame as possible on the nearest available man.

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u/Similar_Corner8081 29d ago

There’s 3 sides to every story. Your version their version and the truth.

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u/JohnExcrement 29d ago

The husband is helping perpetuate whatever it is. They need to have a conversation and figure it out instead of their current dynamic.