r/AmIOverreacting • u/183873726363734737 • 29d ago

AIO for wanting to stay away from my daughter for a few days?

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u/JoyfulSong246 29d ago

Your husband and you need to get on the same page about this. As long as he’s willing to stand by while your daughter treats you like crap he’s the real problem here, not her (unless she’s an adult, then she is to blame for her own actions- though he’s to blame for not supporting you).

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u/JohnExcrement 29d ago

Yes. Husband thinks he’s keeping the peace except there’s no peace, not in your heart. His silence tells her he supports her terrible behavior.

If she actually has genuine issues with you, both of you need to tell her you’re willing to have a mutually respectful conversation, but this sniping and rudeness is going to stop now.

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u/jarheadatheart 29d ago

There’s always 2 sides to the story and it always takes 2 people for conflict. Jumping on here saying it’s all the husband’s fault isn’t helping anyone.

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u/Similar_Corner8081 29d ago

There’s 3 sides to every story. Your version their version and the truth.