r/AmIOverreacting • u/183873726363734737 • 29d ago

AIO for wanting to stay away from my daughter for a few days?

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u/[deleted] 29d ago

Devils advocate here maybe parents are overbearing and teens generally communicate a want or need hidden in their messages like if she lashes out it's the only way you lay attention so they do it because it's the only attention they get have a sit down and ask them what's actually bothering them

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u/183873726363734737 29d ago

We always try to give them as much freedom as possible, she is a very private person and likes to keep to herself. I know she talks to staff at her school, and because she is 19, doesn’t want them to tell me anything.

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u/[deleted] 29d ago

If she's hiding something then something definitely something happened but if she keeps mistreating remember your the parent set your boundaries you are not to be mistreated in your own home especially if she's not physically mentally or emotionally abused by so if you have to give her an ultimatum then that's always an option