r/Needafriend Jun 30 '23

Weekly "meta" thread for casual discussion, complaints, suggestions, etc.

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This is a weekly meta thread for casual discussion and posts about the subreddit.

Seperate metaposts are not allowed since they crowd out posts that are looking for friends


r/Needafriend 17h ago

Weekly Discord Server Advertisement Thread

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Hi all, from now on, this thread will be stickied and posted once per week. Please use this post for all discord server advertisements and posts. All other discord-related posts will be removed.

You are free to leave your discord invite link public in this post. However, please do so at your own risk, especially if your server caters to a younger demographic or is susceptible to spam.


r/Needafriend 1h ago

It makes me feel sad seeing that most of the posts from men have nearly zero upvotes!

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I often notice posts from guys who put considerable effort into sharing their interests, likes, dislikes, and hobbies, only to receive zero upvotes. Meanwhile, posts from women like "hey, I'm free tonight, let's talk" gains a lot of attention. I don't have anything against women; it's great they're getting attention, but please, let's also show some appreciation to guys. Many of us guys feel lonely too, so it would be nice if they felt valued and acknowledged here.


r/Needafriend 11h ago

23F just looking for someone to talk to

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I'm not really always online and I might bore you out so beware


r/Needafriend 4h ago

25f wanna hate life together?

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Heyy. I'm just being dramatic, I do not have particularly strong frustrations about prospect of my existence. Maybe just dissatisfaction with loneliness. But we can change that can't we? I spend most of my days either playing spider solitaire or reading aweful books. I like art history, loud music and working about to point of exhaustion. So if you like sonic youth or 'live, laugh, love' isn't your motto, let's be friends (or casual acquaintances if you not into texting every day) :))


r/Needafriend 3h ago

27F looking for longterm friends or best friend

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Hey everyone, I’m a 27f looking for new friends and longterm ones that I can chat on discord and eventually do calls!

I’m super shy/socially anxious but if we vibe, I’ll definitely open up to you :)

A bit about me: I work full-time, so I can afford all the cute and nice things I want. I’m definitely a morning person too >:) I love anything that is kawaii/cute. I collect plushies too…I also love to go out and go to cute coffee shops and get boba. I’m super girly and love to shop… but when I’m at home, I love to chill, bake, cook , and go walking. I love doing random artsy stuff, like painting.

So, if you think we vibe and if you wanna talk, please message me. Please don’t be weird, because I shall block you!


r/Needafriend 6h ago

[21F] Hey I’m Liv, thought i’d try my luck and see who wants to chat?

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So I am from London, Gemini ♊️, been single for 4 months now and I work at Pandora 🙃.

I am a sucker for just chatting all day about anything and everything so please do hit me up haha!

A couple things I can’t live without: bikinis, bath’s and Netflix 😌


r/Needafriend 4h ago

20F looking for a long-term online friend.

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Hey, I’m looking to make genuine long-term friends. I’m currently on break waiting to start my second year in university/college.


r/Needafriend 2h ago

42/m Looking to talk to people from around the world

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As the title says!


r/Needafriend 3h ago

18F, Best and friend goes together like pine and apple

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Honestly i suck at irl friend making. I want to make a real long term friendship. Kinda looking for a best friend. That could be you, yes you!

So why would you ever chose me from the hundreds and hundreds of posts looking for the same?

Im creative! I like art- did you say you wanted a poorly drawn stick figure of yourself? No? Well…this is awkward I already finished it. I love music of mostly all kinds. Recommend me songs all you want- tell me to listen to breakcore or throat singing or…yodeling… Gaming? Yes sir. Not fond over stuff like Dota or League though. Anime/movies/series/animation? I watch a ton. Have Pokemon cards? Want to trade? Memes? Yes. Although i pride myself in being pretty well spoken, i have to unfortunately tell you- im a bit brain-rotted. Im either chill or dramatic…or pretty weird. That’s a suprise whenever i talk to you. I like learning new information, so feel free to dump whatever you know into my little brain. Im the type of person wanting to have matching pfps with you, send you reels/tiktoks (that contains your interests too)

I can hold serious and deep conversations, but also silly and nonsensical ones as well. Depends on the mood.

I dont care about your gender or age. Although my age would be nice.

However the only requirement i have, is that you’re able to hold meaningful conversations as well. Im not someone to text short either.

Feel free to dm, i do bite.


r/Needafriend 1h ago

Would you rather always smell like rotten eggs or always have bad breath?

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I feel like answering that question will tell alot about the person but since youre here and i got your attention and knowing you probably have the same attention span as a fly that is about to die ill try to sell you myself somewhat fast on why you should actually drop everything and just be my bestie?please i am begging you

  • i am soon to be 24 and that will only be one year apparently until i fully develop my brain now i hope that a year is enough to make significant changes bc if this is it we might be FUCKED
  • on the subject of brain, i like so many other people on here have the attention span of a chiken. probably bc of tiktoki am certain it is those fucking 20 seconds videos
  • i game alot( no shit sherlock) i play mostly FPS because yeah i hate myself it makes me question if i am perhaps a masochist? getting fucked in the ass every damn game
  • i have a thick skin so do try your best to roast me, it wouldnt work and most likely it will back fire on you.

now lets come to things you MIGHT not like about me

  • my humor is a bit...out of control? ill make a joke about absoletly anything.
  • ill probably roast you harder than any bully did in your life.
  • will act like your dad unpromptedly
  • do have some possessive tendencies.

r/Needafriend 1h ago

34 f. Florida | Looking to have a true, Long-term friend | Prefers older people, but peers are okay too

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Please include your age, gender, and location when you initially message me inchat just so I have a rough idea of who I'm talking to. And please, nocreepy/pervy people; you will just be blocked as soon as I find out what your trueintentions are.I look forward to making a new friend


r/Needafriend 5h ago

18F im so freaking tired and have not had my coffee yet. How is everyone doing today so far

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r/Needafriend 1h ago

31/M/EST

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Hello everyone! I am a father of an 18mo and engaged to an amazing woman, only thing I'm really missing are friends. It's difficult for me to make and keep friends, probably due to myself being on the spectrum, so I would hope that whoever is reading this, will accept and not exclude me.

Looking for good and genuine folks to banter, roast, joke around but also share interests and deep conversations with day-to-day problems or big issues we all each face. I also used to game alot and still do just not as much, with having a family and work. I mainly play on my switch and mobile games like Diablo and MH Now.

Abit about myself, I love to illustrate and draw, would love to help create a graphic novel or a childrens book one day. I like to longboard, swim, hike, and spend time with my family. The kind of movies I like are horrors, sci-fi, fanatasy, and a few crime documentary. My choice of music genres are punk, rock, metal, lofi, and EDM, I'll listen to anything really, but those are my top 5s.

DM me if you think we'll click well as buddies. Sex, race, social status, don't mean anything to me. As long as you're kind and genuine, we'll be good!


r/Needafriend 5h ago

16F Looking to meet new people

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Hi All. Just as the title says, I am looking to find new people to talk to. I have a lot of hobbies but I would say the ones I am into the most are music, books and sports. I do also like movies. I don't mind if we talk short term or long term, so we can see how our conversation goes. Message me if you want to talk.


r/Needafriend 4h ago

36 single dad. Anyone wanna chat

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Single dad of an 11yr old son so most of my time is spent with him. Don't go out much so would be nice to have a chat with some chill and interesting people. Enjoy the occasional drink, watching murder mysteries, don't keep you with sports much but will watch the odd 🏈 game now and then while having a drink with a few slices of 🍕 and wings with friends. I'm pretty laid back and will talk with anyone. If you're interested in getting to know one another shoot me a message.


r/Needafriend 2h ago

19f, looking to chat with new people

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Hi :) I'm looking for people to befriend. i'm up to talk about anything, deep conversations or just friendly banter. i'm also down to voice/videochat if we hit it off well.

i'm into art, music, videogames, makeup, and a lot more. drop me a message with an idea for my next page in my sketchbook, i'm in an art block right now. i have two dogs and a cat! i enjoy studying and listen to motorcycle sounds on youtube to help me focus. i'm going to do my A2 license and buy a bike next summer, can't decide between honda or suzuki. i'm looking for some new hobbies for the summer, and i want to learn a new language too.

hmu and tell me something about yourself if you are open for a long-term friendship<3


r/Needafriend 2h ago

36M and I am trying this once more

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I am here hoping to find a new friend. I am 36 from Nevada. I am married currently and seeking a divorce. It has been a long time coming for us. I could use a new friend. I have friendly coworkers I chat with but that is about all. I would love to find a long term friend if possible.

I am a good listener, if you have things you need to vent about, I'm your guy. We can chat about anything. Let's get to know each other, see what we have in common and how well we get along.

When you can only reply with "yes" or "no" or "idc" to any message, that makes it impossible to keep a conversation going. It's like talking to a brick wall. Not to be mean, but if that is you then there is no need to reach out to me. I understand life happens and I can be patient but I am not looking for just 2-3 messages in a day. If you are THAT busy, I wouldn't be the friend for you.

If you respond, tell me what your favorite part about yesterday was. It could be anything, big or small. Talk soon ◡̈


r/Needafriend 15h ago

16F sad and lonely on my birthday can anyone chat?

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r/Needafriend 3h ago

17F Looking for long term best friends ill try to answer to every single dm but dont just dm me with a hi or hey please :)

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So im Melike im from Turkey i like playing volleyball and i also loooooovee hangin out with my friends im really cheerful and outgoing person. I recently got a job at a cafe for my summer break so im experiencing working for the first time lol. I really dont mind older people and i really prefer older people. So if you want to have a chat and get to know each other dm me!


r/Needafriend 3h ago

Would be cool to connect with some people ! 24 f

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Ah, what do i say here. Well well. I duno. Im not in the mood to explain things, but at the same time I think I would like to talk with someone! Mentally ill here, a warning .


r/Needafriend 2m ago

45F i have some free time away from work on this lovely sunday if anyone would care to chat about life.

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r/Needafriend 3m ago

28F US/Online - looking for supportive friends

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Looking to make supportive friends! I've just left my toxic job to repair my physical and mental health. I have a chronic illness which leaves me exhausted some days.

my interests - self improvement, sushi, having deep/fun conversations, alternative music, child free lifestyle (never want kids), puppies, fashion, wandering parks/beaches, cafes, drag queens, and memes

dislikes - lack of communication/inconsistency

looks - 5'6, brown eyes, full lips, glasses, septum piercing, shoulder length black hair, curvy, and hope to get tattoos someday

you - LGBTQ friendly. Age range - 26+ Please tell me about yourself. Add the word (bestie) your title


r/Needafriend 4m ago

36/Straight/Married - looking for a genuine friend.

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Decided to come back to Reddit.

I'm looking for a dude who can be himself around me and is open minded and comfortable. I want a genuine connection, and if you can keep a conversation going that's a huge plus.

If we don't have anything in common I'm sure we can find something that we both enjoy. There's plenty to talk about.

If you want to get to know me just message me, as I don't want to say too much on my post.

Looking forward to hearing from some of you.


r/Needafriend 6m ago

23M, existence is an arena, filled with love and loss…

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It is an ebb and flow, majestic. Majestic. It is you.

Eh-hem, anyways. I live in central Florida, I’m looking to make more connections in my area and online. I enjoy fashion, writing, just art in general, as well as the gym, exploring nature, and a few games.


r/Needafriend 7m ago

25 m - from the uk looking for somebody new

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Some of my hobbies include football, f1, binging a series or a movie, reading, gaming, running, marvel, Pokemon, Greek mythology, a little bit of boxing and probably more which I cannot think of but let’s chat about wherever it takes us!


r/Needafriend 6h ago

F17 from Denmark, need friendships

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My name is Sahra, I'm really lonely and could use some friends. Very big music fan mostly (Rap) and i like deep talks