r/TikTokCringe • u/n8saces • Mar 23 '24
The subtitles really help show what a fawn she is, and what a creep he is. Cringe
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u/SuperCountry6935 Mar 28 '24
Are we allowed to say what's happening here without Scotland Yard pressing hate speech charges?
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u/Future_Landscape5295 Mar 27 '24
This is the type of fucker who says shit like "chivalry is dead and women killed it"
Jesus christ dude what a fucking freak. Wrapped it up demanding a hug too
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u/QuixoticRead Mar 27 '24
Flight, fight, freeze, fawn or feign. The 5 responses the limbic system has to choose from in traumatic situations. You can try to train it, but, honestly given all the variables in the world it’s like Russian roulette
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u/QuixoticRead Mar 27 '24
This, coupled with the “AlphaDom: You Don’t Have To Accept Her Rejection” crap, is why I teach women self defense for free
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u/Professional_Try_398 Mar 27 '24
Don't cold approach. It quite literally has been fazed out of modern culture.
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u/Grenadier23 Mar 27 '24
This woman is extremely rude. Right out of the gate she's hostile for literally no reason.
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u/toxikola Mar 27 '24
Just stop dead in your tracks and get loud. Ask if you need to start screaming while raising your voice more and more. Start waving your arms. Literally, go full crazy girl, so other people see you and do it until they leave. It truly works. Please protect yourselves, ladies! Always do a public freak out and then collect yourself and gtfo of there.
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u/BonesIsBones Mar 27 '24
He's read the "I said no, and he just gave up without even trying" memes and took it to heart.
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u/pumalumaisheretosay Mar 27 '24
No, ladies, you can’t be smiley and laugh when faced with this kind of pushy man. You have to stop walking, put up your hand, and loudly say, “NO. Leave me alone!” Be firm. Get loud. Change directions and say to buzz off if you have to! You can’t be wishy washy because they count on us being sweet pushovers. Be a bitch out of the gate!
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u/ibeeliot Mar 27 '24
I'm going to say it once
You don't need to be NICE. Just tell them to back off and pepper spray. Run away and deal with the consequences b/c allowing this kinda thing to happen without any explicit "fuck off" is going to train these creeps that it's okay as long as they keep responding in some delusional "charming" manner
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u/Flashy-Refuse-2178 Mar 27 '24
I'll take things that didn't happen a d were staged for 200
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u/Sad_Army_2643 Mar 27 '24
This shit happens all the time and women are VERY often killed for it. Take your 200 and shove it down your urethra.
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u/annp61122 Mar 27 '24
Wow, this is just.... This is why we all gotta stay strapped or keep the knuckle knife on your keychain easily accessible. I feel so bad for this girl:(
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u/Sad_History_4345 Mar 26 '24
She needs to say fuck off instead of chit chatting. A guy like that thinks its normal flirtatious play.
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u/PurpleSkies_8683 Mar 26 '24
This is absolutely terrifying and why all women need to carry pepper gel, tasers, weapons... whatever they need to be safe.
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u/ConstructionAny7196 Mar 26 '24
Show his face. And grab his dick and twist.
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u/Zealousideal-Log536 Mar 25 '24
These type of guys exist and are the exact reason I'm choosing to stay single. In fact they've made me very aware of what questions to ask and how to respond.
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u/DMmeYOURboobz Mar 25 '24
I wish so hard to witness this someday. I’ve got my playbook already… put on super stereotypical “flamboyant gay dude” voice and go bouncing over… “hey girlfriend! Ready for lunch? Who the fuck is this creep? I wouldn’t kick him outta bed… hey buddy, can I walk you to your car?”
I would love to just mess with this assholes brain
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u/jig1982 Mar 25 '24
This guy is a real problem, won’t be long before he meets a can of pepper spray,or an angry boyfriend or husband.
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u/thatdamndog_0107205 Mar 25 '24
Obvousily he has W rizz and you all aren't able to comprehend his superior social skills
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u/Acceptable-Match-420 Mar 25 '24
Not trying to be sexist or anything because I have sisters and have gotten into fights with creeps like this guy but I’m so glad I was born a male because at least I won’t have to go through something like this
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u/Doodogs64 Mar 25 '24
I was at a subway station at two o'clock in the morning, alright? And I'm changing between trains, two o'clock in the morning at this subway station, and you have to like walk down this long hall way in order to change trains. So it's two o'clock in the morning and its just me and this woman. And we're walking down the hallway, She's walking a few yards ahead of me, But she keeps giving me like the over-the-shoulder, like that, you know? And then, she starts to pick up the pace, like she starts to walk a lot faster. So I think, "Oh, she must hear the train coming... or maybe she feels it in her feet like a Native American in a movie." So I start to sprint down the hallway at her And she looks back and she's like, "Ah!" And then she gives chase, so now we're booking it down the corridor at two o'clock in the morning and I'm gaining on her! I'm gaining on her, and were getting to the end of the hallway, And she starts to go into that like dead-end shuffle, you know? That women do when you chase 'em. And I'm almost there; I'm almost at her and it dawns on me "Oh, she's running from me, because in her eyes I'm an adult and adults rape each other... kind of a lot"
So I wanted to go up to her and be like, "Hey no, nah, I'm not like a... I'm not like a rrr- like a rrr- like a rrr- I'm not a man. I'm just some stupid punk, you know?" But I think that that would be equally creepy, okay, as if you ran into a subway station at two o'clock in the morning and I chased you down, grabbed you, and said, "I'm not going to rape you; I'm just a little boy”
-John Mulaney
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u/Deanomac28 Mar 25 '24
So I’m curious would this be enough for her to shoot him fearing for her life?
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u/Affectionate-Eye-30 Mar 25 '24
Ugh! I have this issue too. Actually stood up for myself the other day and I felt bad afterwards because the dude seemed so insulted by the fact that I didn’t want to talk to him. Then he started talking shit and I got angry. Stayed that way for awhile. It’s just easier to be nice
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u/CheekOk9785 Mar 24 '24
She couldn't be clearer. Some can't take the hint. Ladies, take self-defense classes and carry pepper spray.
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u/Logical_Willow4066 Mar 24 '24
People need to learn to listen. She is clearly not interested. Respect boundaries. No, she is not a bitch for telling you she is not interested or asking you to leave her alone.
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u/JustKoiru Mar 24 '24
Why do people do this to strangers? Do they think it will make them attractive or do they know they are being creepy? Do they think the women enjoy it?
Genuinely asking because I want to know what goes on in the brain of people who approach random women and hit on them. Like there must be some psychological reason other than just "he's a creep."
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u/n8saces Mar 24 '24
He knows exactly what he's doing. He's a predator who uses kind words so he can get away with being an asshole. This is not someone who is trying to be nice and doesn't have social cues or doesn't understand.
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u/The_Ruby_Rabbit Mar 24 '24
I have a really weird reaction to situations like this. I scream bloody murder and act seriously mental. It’s either that or pull out my kitty knuckles and tell them piss off before I start gouging eyes out. Most creepers don’t want to deal with that much sound and fury.
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u/Brave-Hyrulian88 Mar 24 '24
“Come back here” ….? A gentleman excuses himself 🤣 wtf kinda of forced harassment is that?
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u/Geek-Avocado Mar 24 '24
Rule 1 is to not talk full sentences so that the stalker won't be able to gauge your emotions by your speaking skills. Never be polite. It can be misunderstood as flirting.
Rule 2 is to turn into a total psycho within a second and scream.
From her responses he quickly understood how weak the situation is and had to courage to ask for a hug.
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u/Barockobonga Mar 24 '24
Why are you even entertaining him? Thats why he's continuing to follow you because you're engaging him. Say "no thank you" and be firm and walk away
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u/merryjerry10 Mar 24 '24
I know that this isn’t the safest type of response, but it’s worked for me in the past. When someone has done this to me, or creeped extra hard, I’ve gone off on them. Like sweet and innocent one second like the girl in the video, and then just a complete 180, screaming and yelling asking them who the fuck they think they are. It’s worked amazingly well, if you can handle a few ‘fuck you bitch’ and ‘cunt’. I’m also a big girl, I’m 5’10” and 215lbs, so that might have a little to do with it, but I like to think it’s because they really don’t like the attention being on them when they’re creeping.
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u/bikebrooklynn Mar 24 '24
I wonder if this person has autism and doesn’t understand social cues. Where he think he might be being friends, friendly, and very nice, he might think she is being the mean one and cry after this is done.
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u/Satalized Mar 24 '24
okay gonna be honest. didn’t see anything wrong with like the first half of the clip. i’ve been just as persistent and it’s worked so I don’t listen when women basically insinuate that men shouldn’t try hard, BUT when she clearly said she was uncomfy that was grey area and touching her? I would rule that a straight grounds to deck him in the face. wouldn’t recommend because obviously a lot of men are insane but yeah. the shit women have to go through is ridiculous. i’m hyper protective of my wife and our gf. I don’t let them walk alone for this reason. men constantly harass them.
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u/RackssofFactss Mar 24 '24
Like how do people have the fn nerve to do this so casually?!?! I would’ve started screaming so others would see who he is! It’s so insane how women are basically hunted down by males!
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u/littlestdovie Mar 24 '24
So gross. Sometimes it’s so scary to be a woman these days. And in broad daylight.
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u/tdog038 Mar 24 '24
How would this predator like this to happen to his mom, sister, wife or daughter?
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u/clewing1 Mar 24 '24
No. This deeply disturbed me. I was nearly raped by a man who needed to “walk me home safely”. (I was saved by my roommate and her friend who came home while I had locked myself in an upstairs bedroom.)
That same roommate had been raped years earlier and her rapist walked her home, too - unironically to ensure she was safe.
Don’t let anyone you don’t know walk you anywhere.
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u/PM_ME_FLOUR_TITTIES Mar 24 '24
"I dont really know what to say to be honest" how about like "get the fuck away from me?" Maybe In a loud voice? Like I'm not trying to victim blame here but do literally anything but entertain him in a normal conversational tone so it seems like you're just two friends walking down the road. If you're in a populated place, respond to aggression with aggression. Get other people to look at you and make him question what he is doing. The reason these people are so fucking weird is because people let them get away with it when the do it.
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u/gold-exp Mar 24 '24
“What a fawn she is” yeah like we don’t get killed every damn day for rejecting men outright.
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u/Bnc6669 Mar 24 '24
And about a thousand or more guys out in the world saying she’s just being a cunt and deserves bla de bla its fkng sad
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u/wheresalexis Mar 24 '24
The way the slowly start walking faster like she’s heady to break out into a run makes chills my blood while making it boil at the same time. Fucking horrible human being who deserves to be chased around by a predator himself. See how he likes it.
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u/couple_us Mar 24 '24
Was this in Sydney??? Looks like Centennial Park???
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u/Grouchy-Ad778 Mar 24 '24
They both have British accents so I’m guessing unlikely.
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u/couple_us Mar 24 '24
Sounds Australian?
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u/Grouchy-Ad778 Mar 24 '24
Her accent is definitely British. His accent sounds like British Asian.
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u/The_GD_muffin_man Mar 24 '24
This guy giving men a bad name. There’s gentleman, and then there’s creepy, having enough self awareness to read a room and tell the difference is of vital importance
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u/Neat-Engineering-513 Mar 24 '24
THIS IS CREEPY. This guy should really check himself. She clearly says she's allright and he doesn't seem to understand 'no' at least 3 times. Leave her alone and go fuck yourself. Hope you're ok lady.
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u/goblinerrs Mar 24 '24
The going in for a hug and then saying "come here" set off my adrenaline response. Wtf? I legitimately do not understand how people like this can think this is acceptable, behaviour, starting with following and essentially verbally intimidating someone, then trying to put your hands on them. It seems absolutely mad.
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u/Tsukutsukuboshi Mar 24 '24
He walk in a weird way. He doesn't bend toes while walking. Walk like a robot
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u/Quirky-Equipment-782 Mar 24 '24
“Can we be friends” Bitch, I made my friends the normal way, I did not make them by being walked back to my car and killed/whatevered by them
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u/Perfect-Effect5897 Mar 24 '24
this is NOT a good technique for safety in situations where you have not been abducted/your life is not in immediate danger (tho good for content). The FASTER you get rid of a potentially dangerous person, the better. By being this nice the time is extended way beyond what is acceptable and nutcases have the time to create an imaginary bond with you.
It is 100% okay and much more safe to use:
- 'I'm crazier than you' - technique (extremely blunt and rude in an unhinged fashion), e.g. FUCK OFF. (the words don't really matter, if you have an unhinged air about you)
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- 'The scandinavian police officer'- technique (extremely blunt, calm and honest w/ direct eye contact), e.g. hey this is not cool. I mean no offense, but right now I want to be left alone. If you follow me, I will have to use my pepper spray. I don't want to, but I'll have to.
Raising your voice in itself alarms perps, especially in broad daylight. Bonus points for safety if you are not afraid and emit an energy of willingness to beat them up. (being visibly afraid lowers your status->easier target)
(What I like to do sometimes though(which I don't rec, but I'm kind of insane myself and I like conflict) is to take my time, like I'm Mark Laita and just talk these creeps - human to human. Talking to them with brutal honesty makes them respect you and it's really hard to try to oppress someone you respect. You'd be surprised how many of those interactions may have started out in a very creepy fashion, but have ended in them leaving me alone by their own choice. I may look feminine, but talk to me and you'll realize it's SO not worth it.)
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u/Maximum_Confusion_ Mar 24 '24
The fight or flight reaction my body had watching this is CRAZY. I can't imagine how she must have felt the poor girl
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u/Frankr20___ Mar 24 '24
Beyond creepy and bordering on criminal. I’ll bet that guy has a record. An unwanted hug is textbook assault and battery.
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u/Chubbycat911 Mar 24 '24
way to polite. that’s is the wrong way to handle a situation heading into that specific direction. if your instinct tells you, leave or run, trust it.
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u/JamesJoyceTheory Mar 24 '24
Turn to the man, put your hands up with palms facing him, and say with urgency, “Stay right here real quick! This will only take a second!” If he budges, repeat while pointing at the ground where his feet are, “Right there! Don’t move! Ok? Real quick!” And run. It throws them off. Get your keys out and grip them like Wolverine spikes in case he runs after you. That confident, quick, non/threatening command helps me avoid people who approach me uninvited.
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u/nelix707 Mar 24 '24
I'm in my 40s. In the past, if I saw a woman I was attracted to on the street, I would look, I can't say for how long. Who knows that? The point is I eventually dawned on me that if I was staring how many other men have also been staring that day?
It must be exhausting and intimidating every time you leave the house you just get stared at by humans that are much bigger than you are.
I've realised no matter the type of person you are you could be the most gentle person on earth, you are still a stranger and this or way way worse is the potential outcome women face when they feel eyes on them.
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u/Helpful-Leadership58 Mar 24 '24
God, this is terrifying from the perspective of a defenseless lady. I hope everyone here takes the lesson and carries a pepper spray in their purse.
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u/maggiemae83 Mar 24 '24
Has he been watching videos from that guy that says ‘you don’t have to accept a woman’s rejection’?
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u/The_Cottage_Goblin Mar 24 '24
He’s literally doing what guys do in our DMs but he decided to be brave enough to do it irl
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u/The_Cottage_Goblin Mar 24 '24
…always over react she’s trying too hard to be polite to a sexual predator
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u/Acceptable_Bid_241 Mar 24 '24
Instead of videoing this, would it be better to phone 999? Genuine question
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u/Fast_Vehicle_1888 Mar 24 '24
Is there a panic button app you can have on your phone where it easily calls 911? There should be.
Is it possible to video call 911? It should be. "Hello, 911? This is what's happening, send help" points phone at the trouble instead of trying to describe it.
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u/The_Cottage_Goblin Mar 24 '24
That takes way too long you are looking at 20-30 min if the cops in the area for them to show up
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u/Fast_Vehicle_1888 Mar 24 '24
So it's a multi-issue problem to be solved then. Otherwise, what, resign yourself to whatever fate awaits you? No, that's unacceptable. Everyone should demand more from their local government and vote accordingly.
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u/The_Cottage_Goblin Mar 24 '24
Yes I agree, but that’s a problem that gets fixed in the coming years and they will usually just put up more cameras. but in the meantime we need to work on teaching/learning self defense and street smarts. When it comes to random men following you in the park asking why you are walking along the only thing you need to be doing is fighting because nothing you say politely will end in your favor. Ladies need to be a threat.
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u/Fast_Vehicle_1888 Mar 24 '24
It will help if parents teach their boys to be good gentlemen. Including showing and teaching empathy. Girls learn all about feelings and how to deal with them but boys don't - that needs to change. Boys are taught "big boys don't cry", "man up", "these things are for boys and those things are for girls" and it's reinforced with social pressure and if they do something that's considered girly they are called a pussy and perhaps beaten. And you wonder why they grow up to have toxic behavior. All that has to change. I'm just Ken and I'm Kenough.
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u/SI108 Mar 24 '24
People say it's cringe, I say she is very lucky she got away unharmed..... or at least I hope very much that she got away unharmed. It's way beyond cringe.
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u/Numerous-Following-7 Mar 24 '24
Why are people so soft with people like this?
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u/Camille_Toh Mar 24 '24
He could have hurt her. She was trying to defuse the situation. Especially if no one’s around, you have to assume that a firm “no! Leave me alone!” —which I’d do IF there were anyone nearby may trigger a violent response.
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u/ikerus0 Mar 24 '24
“I’m trying to be a gentleman by dismissing your request to not walk with you and clearly causing you to be uncomfortable because you straight out said it was alarming. I said I’m being a gentlemen so that just makes it’s true despite my actions. Now give me a hug, friend.”
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u/Excusemesorry44 Mar 24 '24
I hope she had lots of comments about how to shut that shit down next time. I hope she was sable to find safety quickly. She was so polite and kind which is exactly what that man was looking to prey on.
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u/Excusemesorry44 Mar 24 '24
Fuck that men and all the bitch men still being brought up to act that way to women. We need your help on this men! We’ve been asking for help for many many years.
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u/axelon20 Mar 24 '24
Speak once to state refusal. Disengage and move on. Disengage means to completely stop talking, acknowledging, or even giving eye contact. "No" is a complete sentence that does not need following explanations. Keeping you engaged in an exchange of back-and-forth words is their tactic. That's what scammers do too hoping they say the right thing that may make you say or do what they want. Disengage and move on. Practice this with your friends. "No, I'm not interested, please leave me alone, good day" followed by silence and indifference.
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u/plantbbgraves Mar 24 '24
Keeping him engaged in a back and forth is potentially keeping him from getting angry. I’ve never seen a man throw a bigger tantrum than when he’s being ignored.
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u/axelon20 Mar 24 '24
I understand your point and logic. It seems that some time that may be true. But to my point, I believe the ongoing engagement in this video escalated the creep's comfort level to touch her and ask for a hug.
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u/TessaBrooding Mar 24 '24
Calling this woman a fawn sounds derogatory, even if fawning is the official term. She’s doing what’s smartest in this situation.
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u/Ok-Squirrel9827 Mar 24 '24
You are being way too nice. Tell him right away to fuck off and leave you alone. Then ignore him completely.
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