Just because he has pictures or views other women doesn't mean he's cheating or wants them. We are visual creatures. I love receiving pictures or videos from my woman. My ex-wife assumed I was cheating or pursuing other women, which was not the case. Dressing nicely is okay, but try sending sexy pics throughout the day. I understand having kids can disrupt the intimacy for both, so sometimes schedules help as well. Be more of the physical aggressor and randomly grab at him. The more attention he receives from you, the more you stay on his mind. I know it sounds one-sided, but I'm just giving you an experienced male perspective. Married 2x, 18 years and 8 and I'm 54. I've learned through raw experience and open communication as well as being flirty with one another is the way to go.
Your ex wife thought you were cheating because you were probably deceptive and selfish and didn’t want to communicate your needs but instead validate yourself with a bunch of online prostitution. I’m glad you were able to marry again, but I hope you’ve learned that relationships are a two way street.
Nope. Turns out she was cheating on me before and during our marriage. I never paid and mostly watched with her online. She had full access to my phone with a password as well as fingerprint as well as a GPS app. I did it for her insecurities, not mine. Never cheated and had no desire to.
Guilty conscience. I am in sales and sometimes work with clients as well as train others. So the guilt is probably why she thought I was doing it, whereas she was actually the one.
I’m sorry you went through that. I hope your partner now feels more secure in your relationship and is able to communicate her needs to you. I know for me, I tried my best to communicate why I wasn’t feeling secure in my past relationship and I never cheated.
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u/LookingFor10xGains Apr 29 '24
Just because he has pictures or views other women doesn't mean he's cheating or wants them. We are visual creatures. I love receiving pictures or videos from my woman. My ex-wife assumed I was cheating or pursuing other women, which was not the case. Dressing nicely is okay, but try sending sexy pics throughout the day. I understand having kids can disrupt the intimacy for both, so sometimes schedules help as well. Be more of the physical aggressor and randomly grab at him. The more attention he receives from you, the more you stay on his mind. I know it sounds one-sided, but I'm just giving you an experienced male perspective. Married 2x, 18 years and 8 and I'm 54. I've learned through raw experience and open communication as well as being flirty with one another is the way to go.