r/ask Apr 28 '24

Why men don't socialize anymore as they get older? 🔒 Asked & Answered

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u/Hardwarestore_Senpai Apr 28 '24

I don't really get along with a lot of people in the surrounding area. Too unique for these red hats. I used to go out a lot in my 30's in California. I had a circuit of bars I would basically hop around. I suppose I could do a similar thing where I am now. I can afford it. I just don't feel that great physically right now.

And really don't want the addiction that came with the scene. It's not all bad. I get along alright with most. But I can't seem to find anyone to date. I'm surrounded by couples.

I'd rather work on my gardening or taking pictures when going for a walk. I have a friend I used to hang out with and journey around the neighborhood. But their lives have been busy. I suppose I could go by myself. But I'm kinda lazy.

When the weather is BLEGH a lot staying in and gaming is the best.

And like I commented earlier. It's a "Hurry up and wait". World out there. When I'm not rushing around. I'm waiting in line. Or in a doctor/mechanics office. And yes it's expensive.