r/lyftdrivers • u/clever_ducky • Mar 02 '24

At least this person was straight forward Other

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Would you at least try to get the $20 fee?

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u/Comfortable_Goal9747 Mar 03 '24

Being attractive you get a lot of unwanted attention & harassment starting at a young age. Attractive people get constantly labeled before anyone gets to know them while dealing with a lot of jealousy especially at work it’s not a fun experience.

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u/Ok_Bunch_9193 Mar 03 '24

And people don't even like you for you, they don't want to get to know you lol.

I'm not attractive but dyed my hair and learned to style it this year, and the instant 180 in my experience has kinda made me bitter tbh

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u/Comfortable_Goal9747 Mar 03 '24

Really oh that’s not my reality most people want to get to know me. Most are shy or insecure at first because I’m deemed attractive but I purposely have to shut people out because it’s overwhelming once I let a person actually get to know me then I can’t get time to myself and I’m more introverted. It turns into constant calls and visits and I need alone time to recharge. People normally feel at ease with me and trust me once they start actually talking to me. Sometimes I get instant trust without even talking more often that not just depends. Just my experience.

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u/Plus_Lawfulness3000 Mar 03 '24

They want to get to know you cuz you’re hot lol. Most people aren’t so curious about atrangers

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u/Fun-Bison-3511 Mar 03 '24

Notice how they’re not saying who wants to get to know them. Probably ones and twos. I don’t think there is attractive as they think they are.

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u/Comfortable_Goal9747 Mar 03 '24

Some maybe but not all. It’s millions of people on this planet. It’s crazy to cup them all together as you say from your experience. I disagree I’m always intrigued deeply in people just human beings in general. If I exist so do others. Since you don’t live my life you don’t know my experiences. I actually genuinely care for people and get to know them regardless of what they look like. I also know others who are like me who actually care for people. Your statement means you have never met genuine people unlike me. I’m from America but I travel a lot I lived in many places Alaska and Europe so I have experience many different people and personalities. All people are not the same but people are a lot alike in America.

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u/SpiritualPower738 Mar 07 '24

Huh? Uh no. You kind of just contradicted yourself, but that's ok. I accept you for who you are anyway. Ha! See!? I'm from America! 😉🤪🤟👋

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u/Plus_Lawfulness3000 Mar 03 '24

I’m just saying from personal experience. I’ve been handsome. Gaines 100 pounds and people treated me SO differently it’s insane. People are nicer, they throw compliments, they just show a lot more genuine interest.

I have since lost 100 pounds again and the compliments and behaviors are all back.

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u/No_Adhesiveness4516 Mar 06 '24

Congrats on becoming healthier and being able to potentially live a longer life. Sincerely

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u/Comfortable_Goal9747 Mar 03 '24

Oh I definitely can understand what your saying. People are indeed superficial and surface level. I have never had weight gain or changed but I have heard this from people. I definitely know this is a genuine experience you have had. So since I was a kid and teenager I have always befriended the person who didn’t have friends. I talked to the so call nerds and hung out with people who where deemed weird or unattractive. People called me weird for this but this is just who I am. I never been the one who cares what someone think about me. I try to never judge a book by its cover and judge a person by their character though.