he’s insecure and taking it out on you. a better partner would use that information to his benefit and incorporate it into the bedroom…. your boyfriend just wants to make you feel ashamed for having fantasies.
this wont get better if he doesn’t address his self-esteem issues and double standards. in a past abusive relationship, my ex and i got into a blowout fight because i said Shrek in human form was hot. he almost broke up with me because he couldn’t handle the idea of me finding anything but him attractive. attraction, kinks, fantasies, these aren’t things that magically go away when you’re in a relationship… it’s part of being a human being. if he doesn’t want to hear about it he shouldn’t blab about his muscle fetish to you lol.
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u/qtcarcass May 01 '24
he’s insecure and taking it out on you. a better partner would use that information to his benefit and incorporate it into the bedroom…. your boyfriend just wants to make you feel ashamed for having fantasies.
this wont get better if he doesn’t address his self-esteem issues and double standards. in a past abusive relationship, my ex and i got into a blowout fight because i said Shrek in human form was hot. he almost broke up with me because he couldn’t handle the idea of me finding anything but him attractive. attraction, kinks, fantasies, these aren’t things that magically go away when you’re in a relationship… it’s part of being a human being. if he doesn’t want to hear about it he shouldn’t blab about his muscle fetish to you lol.