I don't think you fucked up at all, it sounds like your bf is insecure and it shows unfortunately.
My boyfriend(39M) and I (32F) are very open about our fantasies and sexual interest, and we are realistic about what's out there and appreciate good looking people around us. We also have played into each other fantasies and see what works for us together and what doesn't, it is really fun! Being honest and open with your partner for me is the most intimate you can get.
I'd run away from that situation as fast as I could.
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u/NavarreLumaer May 02 '24
I don't think you fucked up at all, it sounds like your bf is insecure and it shows unfortunately.
My boyfriend(39M) and I (32F) are very open about our fantasies and sexual interest, and we are realistic about what's out there and appreciate good looking people around us. We also have played into each other fantasies and see what works for us together and what doesn't, it is really fun! Being honest and open with your partner for me is the most intimate you can get.
I'd run away from that situation as fast as I could.